I can’t be happy if everybody in this world is not happy: my battle against “personal communism” in the era of post cold war.

I was born during cold war. And was a teenager during Gorbatchev’s Perestroika and later on when the Soviet Union fell apart. My country was a NATO member, and an ally to the USA. So communism was told to be the biggest threat at the time, and you could have serious trouble by defending it. I remember a young guy child?, 15 years old, who … Continue reading I can’t be happy if everybody in this world is not happy: my battle against “personal communism” in the era of post cold war.

Boundaries: if you have hard time saying no, this might be why.

Do you have hard time saying “no”? Maybe you have accepted to take care of your neighbor’s pet while you are working full time, and raising three children? Or you have that annoying friend who always shares with you all “the cat videos” on internet, and you think (s)he will be offended if you tell her/him to stop sending them. Or you are invited to … Continue reading Boundaries: if you have hard time saying no, this might be why.